I am reading the book, How to Hit a Curve Ball, Grill the Perfect Steak, and Become a Real Man: Learning What Our Fathers Never Taught Us. I came across a profound quote in the book:
"But the litmus test of an authentic man is his willingness to make a fool of himself for what matters most to him.Being authentic means showing up and stepping onto the court of life, regardless of our perceived skills. It's being willing to shoot baskets with your kids even when you play like Pee Wee Herman."
I often find myself in a position where that little voice in my head tells me how foolish I will look... that voice of self doubt. I can easily ignore it when it comes to my daughters, their smiles and joy compensates for any foolishness I feel. Though it is embarrassing to admit that I do not treat other situations the same, how many times have I stopped short because of what others might think? Self reflection is a painful process, but one we must endure to become better people and closer with God. It is time to be "weighed and measured".
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