Proverbs 12:18 "Reckless words pierce like a sword, but the tongue of the wise brings healing."
Proverbs 15:4 "The tongue that brings healing is a tree of life, but a deceitful tongue crushes the spirit."
We have all been hurt by someone's words, even if we don't like to admit it. The childhood saying, "Sticks and stones...", is a nice thought - but words do have power. I often find myself in a situation that I am trying to help someone and I can truly relate to their pain; Words, the right words escape me and all the good intentions I have are futile if I can not communicate them effectively.
I have also, unfortunately, been the cause of much of other people's pain. I allowed my temper or hurt to over ride my heart and take hold of my tongue. Before I totally grasp what I have said, I see the results of my short sightedness. I find myself covered in blood, not literally but emotional blood. Usually when we attack someone out of anger or hurt the "fight" that ensues is a two way battle. Our lapse in judgment and restraint not only damages our adversary and their defenses damage us, but we also take on the extra baggage of guilt and eventually have to atone and repent for our transgressions.
Physical wounds heal infinitely faster than an emotional wound. An emotional "paper cut" can take years to heal, if ever. How many times have you regretted saying something? How many times have you truly repented for saying it? Finally, how many times have you sought out the person you hurt and apologized, taking complete ownership of your actions? Not an apology of, "I am sorry, but you..." You are not owning your faults, you are justifying your actions.
I placed this under inspirations because if you are conscious of this process and aware of your actions, you can begin to be truly free of your baggage and the past. This healing will lift your spirit and truly change your life.
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